I will probably get approached by someone, and be told that what I'm going through is a phase. In other words, they would be telling me that my preference for Asian men is a phase. If someone were to tell me that I wouldn't really get it at all. The reason is because what kind of "phase" would they be talking about?
I would like to start off saying that this is not a phase at all, and second, if this were to be a phase, how come I have had this preference for the last 5 to 7 years now? I would consider this to be too long to be called a "phase". So why not have the courage to have the preference that I have? I can't really see myself marrying and/or having a lifetime relationship with anyone else, but an Asian man. That's just me.
So yes! I may get told this, but so what! I'm not going to live my life by what/how the society says I should live it, nor am I going to change to prove my "blackness" to anyone. I don't have to do that, and I'm not going to.
So I really don't care!
People can talk all they want!